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4 things to remember in all relationships.

By Isik Tlabar

When someone rejects you, it doesnt mean anything about you.

When someone doesnt want to be with you, it can be almost automatic to take it personally. You might feel abandoned, unloved, unworthy or insignificant. You might question yourself as if there is something wrong with you or you might lose your confidence. You might even change yourself to fit into the criteria of that person so they dont leave you.

When youre being yourself and someone rejects you, that is actually a good thing. It shows that youre not right for each other. When youre being yourself and that person wants to be with you, thats beautiful. You win either way.

The truth is, there is someone for you out there who will love you for who you are. You dont have to change yourself and be less of who you are for someone. Ever.

When you compare yourself with others, you forget who you are.

When you compare yourself with others, youre taking something external as a reference point and you lose your centre, you give your power away.

Especially on social media when you look at other peoples lives, its easy to fall into the trap of comparison. You dont know the whole story of whats going on for them. No ones life is perfect. Even if they tell you they dont have any issues, thats not true. Theyre either playing it small, not being honest with themselves or havent gone deeper into their wounds.

Write a list of 20 things you love about yourself, it could be about how you look, your character, anything. 20 things that make you, you. Next time you catch yourself comparing with others, you can bring your focus back to what you love about yourself.

You can ask for what you want and have it.

You might feel like you cant ask for what you want not just from your partner but from people around you. It might feel awkward, you might feel you dont deserve to have it or you might not want to let people in to keep yourself safe as asking for help requires vulnerability.

A good way to ask for what you want is to speak from your heart. Dont offer favour first, or tell how tired you are hoping theyll get the message, thats manipulation. Ask directly. Be clear and loving. If they say no, thats ok, again doesnt mean anything about you. Ask someone else. Youll be surprised how many people are willing to help you, they just dont know how.

Give yourself what you want others to give you.

Close your eyes and imagine the 5-year-old you in front of you. What does s/he need? What does s/he need to hear from you to feel safe and loved? Tell them that.

Give your inner child what you want others to give you. This way you meet your own needs and you dont get upset by othersactions towards you, especially by your parents. When the need for them to do something is not there, they naturally give you what you always wanted anyway. This also helps you to focus on your future with ease and flow rather than dwelling on the past.

I work on those areas (relationship & purpose) a lot in 1:1 coaching/clearing sessions. If you want to support in mastering these, message me.

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