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It’s not the whiney little bitch conversation we need to have.

It’s The One About Impotence Instead.

by Joanna Intara

 

I love Bill Maher.

He’s amazing, funny, talented and brilliant.

And the whiney little bitch conversation has been on the table for a long time. And I’ve been listening to it, and today it really got to me.

Part of it is that it’s become standard now for that expression to be used repeatedly about men (or women) who complain.

Like somehow the idea is that if you shame complainers enough, they will eventually just ‘snap’ out of it, including (cough) some notable public leaders.

But I’m not having it. 

And this does not mean I just accept complaining either, from myself or others.

Because someone who is complaining feels impotent in some way.  Not feeling powerful, not empowered, not able to activate, and THAT is a big deal which requires some serious healing, transformation and awakening. It is NOT an overnight deal.

And yet, how many people do you know of that can say the I word, for Impotent.

Probably when you hear it you think men’s sexuality, impotence and that’s where it’s most commonly discussed, but the reason we have a president in the White House who is made fun of as a whiney little bitch is that we really can’t have the impotence conversation hardly all.

It’s not lost on me, or you, that the outer mandala reflects the inner one.

And yet, we cannot let our unacknowledged impotence(s) and powerless govern our soul or our country!

Let us drop the shame and blame.

And the need to get humor from somewhere because we can’t really talk about the real thing being impotence.

Because it is painful, and it hurts to acknowledge our powerlessness and our unpowerful selves, but we must before we can make any genuine pivot into creation or LOA (Law of Attraction) that you desire to manifest into being.

And the mind can make lots of judgments about it, and try with its inner bad gangs to incarcerate you into a false truth about yourself.

But those are all empty anyway.

What is true is that you feel without power somewhere. Disconnected from flow, alignment, and fulfilment.  

It’s that you don’t feel powerful and it’s time you admitted it because no amount of manic creation or affirmation will release it till you recognize what it is,

And face it for the fulfilment it will bring you, like your immense power, capacities and gifts waiting for you, but just not in the form you were attached to them appearing to you in to start with.

I wonder where are the ones that are ready and willing to be able to be this humble and meet the impotence inside, the powerlessness, with radical care and deep love and understanding.

And sit with the discomfort. 

And not go into fight, flight, or numb.

And bring its presence.

Through body, heart and mind.

And feel the shift that’s waiting to be had.

Your soul’s fulfilment is not a passing fad.

Those are the ones that will live their big empowerment and service gifts out loud for all the souls to be served.

These are the ones that need to know how to liberate the enormous power contained inside of it.

These are the ones that have the power to shift the needle of how we evolve forward on the planet, and if that is you, this world is waiting for you be that powerful and bring it on forward.

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