I remember one day that my mom told me that kids don’t come with an instruction manual. At the time, I’m pretty sure I was pushing her to be a better parent because my child-self knew that I needed that. I don’t regret pushing her to be a better parent, I took her wisdom further and of course, realized that it’s true... they don’t exactly hand out parenting custom-designed … [Read more...] about When You Are Thinking About Calling It Quits, This Game Changer Is All You Need.
Love they said... YES she answered! Hurt you will they said... NO she answered! Oh but darling you must experience both to truly know the infinite depths and breadths of love. Why she asked? Because to love is to live. To live is to be vulnerable. To be vulnerable is to live out your full aliveness expressed. For anything else is to taste death while still alive. I am afraid … [Read more...] about Love they said…
At some point in all of our lives, we write love letters. Part of my journey with money has been to heal the traumatic relationship that we had at one point. So I write a love letters to money, I have written many over the years. They change and evolve as I do. When we look at the world today and why it is so very traumatised, there are two reasons for me. Money has the wrong … [Read more...] about A LOVE LETTER TO MONEY.
The other night my man was feeling a lot. We had just returned from Europe, were integrating our bodies, with picking up the kids from camp and getting grounded at home, while dealing with jet lag. I was fantasizing about Italian pizza, dripping with mozzarella and prosciutto, while experiencing re-entry after vacation, which is sometimes evocative and bumpy. And he was feeling … [Read more...] about Let Your King Have The Fullness Of His Feelings Without Interference And THIS Will Unfold.
So you’re in the naughty 40s, except you don’t feel naughty, in a sensual, sexual kind of way. You’ve become a mum, had your children and your body shows the signs of that amazing experience; the rounded, not so toned tummy, stretch marks and your boobs seem to have dropped a little lower. And then Mother Nature is also working her magic, your metabolism is slowing down, the … [Read more...] about 40 Something, Fabulous and Fantasies.
No one ever told me how to get and keep a marriage or relationship hot, sexy, close and steamy. When I look down the lineage, I have few examples of that. And I think it created a lot of problems. Kids not seeing their parents happy, loving and connected. Not seeing their mothers squeezed, kissed and loved up real good. It left a template of struggle and disconnection and … [Read more...] about What To Do When No One Showed You How To Have Hot Sex, Love And Closeness.
Suppose there were a camera capable of recording, at the precise moment of death, the sum total of the love the dying person had generated throughout his or her life. There would be no possibility of Photoshopping or otherwise distorting the data. The miraculous camera would take into account factors like child abuse, war, grinding poverty, prejudice and other things that might … [Read more...] about The Love Camera.
HOW DO YOU TALK TO YOURSELF? I mean what sorts of things do you whisper in your own mind regarding how you look, sound, think, or act? What sort of internal dialogue or communication do you have with…. You? For years, mine was a shitty one. I was constantly putting myself down. Whether it be about my looks, my abilities, even my relationships, it seemed that my worst enemy had … [Read more...] about How To Fix Your Internal Dialogue – Self love