Are you like others? Do you tell yourself, “I’ll do that tomorrow” or “I’ll get that done later” or “I promise I’ll do that later” or “we’ll do that next year”? Even better, “I’ll start/stop tomorrow”. I’m going out on a limb and guess most of the time “it” doesn’t happen tomorrow, next month or next year. I would like to share four strategies that helped me and will help you … [Read more...] about Next year…
Perspectives are simply positions from where we view things, people, conversations, situations. We can have a “Me View,” which is what most of us have pretty much all the time because this is our world which we inhabit and no-one elses. A great perspective to have for being in touch with ourselves and our feelings, as well as standing up and supporting our own interests. The … [Read more...] about How We Can Use Perspectives To Understand Other People.
Sitting and reflecting in awe amongst a myriad of sunshine yellow buttercups, I am reflecting on my gratitude for this moment, feeling on top of the world. However, I know not everyone feels this good. Earlier today as I was sat in the hair dressers and I spotted a lady in my mirror as she was on the other side of the salon. She was sat explaining to her stylist how she didn’t … [Read more...] about A painful state is only temporary.
You are a work of art. A masterpiece. You’re one of a kind because there’s only one you. You are unique, everything about you is unique; your voice print, fingerprints, DNA, eye print, yes you’re that special. You’re a very special and unique human being, now these are some real super powers. You need to come to the full knowledge of just how special and unique you are, the … [Read more...] about A work of ART and a MASTERPIECE.
We now live in a world where women have taken on more of masculine roles in life. We have turned into ‘lady bosses’, ‘boss babes’, and powerful leaders and said - “I’ll do it all myself, I don’t need a man in my life.” This in turn has emasculated the men and created imbalance and disharmony in relationship dynamics. Men have felt unworthy and not needed, and feeling needed is … [Read more...] about SOFTEN WOMEN, SOFTEN – IT LOOKS GOOD ON YOU!
Did it occur to you that…? You walk outside along the lake. It is 7 a.m. in the morning. The sun rises and shines over the water. Small sparkles and early bird sounds fill the blue sky. It is still cold. I wrap my scarf well around my neck and walk further along the water. I enjoy the fresh air and the sounds in the air. A jogger is coming my way. His head looks sweaty. … [Read more...] about What is more beautiful than love?
“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment” – BUDDA Why is it we hear all too often “doesn’t time fly” “where has the year gone?” “time just goes faster and faster” A little way into the New Year and we may have simmered down from the boil a touch. The excitement, focus and anticipation for the New … [Read more...] about The time is NOW!
In my experience, the life cycles tend to each last about 7 years. It just so happens I am heading into the last year of the 7th cycle of my life. In reflecting on these 7-year cycles, some feel like yesterday and others feel like a lifetime ago. Until I really took some time to reflect on these cycles, I didn’t really understand how significant they are in my life. I always … [Read more...] about When 7 turns 48
I’ve heard the words ‘Connect’, ‘Disconnected’ and ‘Reconnect’ a lot. Maybe this is because so many people feel disconnected from themselves and want to reconnect with their body, mind, and spirit, or I’ve noticed it increasingly since it has become one of my favourite topics. I truly believe that if we lost connection with ourselves that we can get it back, we can build the … [Read more...] about Reconnect
A brother recently asked me - “So Linda, what is your definition of a ‘King’?” As a result of this question I began to dig deeper into the man’s evolution into becoming a King so that he can ‘hold’ a Queen. The ‘King & Queen’ wording gets thrown around a lot. Do you agree? There are many people in relationships who call their princes Kings, and who call their … [Read more...] about Becoming The King